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Hello! I signed up about half an hour ago. I’d like to know how other guys have introduced the concept of chastity to their wives, especially those who had…

member_d6f77cf78e 9 Sept 2026 #1

Hello! I signed up about half an hour ago. I’d like to know how other guys have introduced the concept of chastity to their wives, especially those who had to make it happen themselves. I’m pretty sure my wife would get a real kick out of tormenting me, but I also realize I need to approach her correctly. Our sex life is lively and she’s quite bold—some might even say promiscuous. She’s always open to trying new things for me, like exhibitionism, masturbating in public, bondage (where she ties herself up), sharing photos online, and more. She enjoys being the submissive partner during sex, though occasionally she likes to take charge. Once I get her on board, she’ll happily “Take the keys and run”.

member_e6ca982f3b 9 Sept 2026 #2

> janderson32151 said: > Hello! I signed up about half an hour ago. > > I’d like to know how other guys have introduced the concept of chastity to their wives, especially those who had to make it happen themselves. > > I’m pretty sure my wife would get a real kick out of tormenting me, but I also realize I need to approach her correctly. > > Our sex life is lively and she’s quite bold—some might even say promiscuous. She’s always open to trying new things for me, like exhibitionism, masturbating in public, bondage (where she ties herself up), sharing photos online, and more. > > She enjoys being the submissive partner during sex, though occasionally she likes to take charge. > > Once I get her on board, she’ll happily "Take the keys and run". > Thanks > Click to expand... Welcome aboard! I would suggest asking her what she thinks about it while you're having sex. Tease her until she's begging for release, then ask if she’s ever heard of a chastity device. Tell her you’d like to lock her up and control her orgasms. Mention that you want to keep teasing her constantly as you are now, but eventually lock her back without letting her cum. If she likes the idea, buy a matching **chastity cage** for both of you. =P If she seems less excited, tell her how appealing it sounds for her to control your orgasms and offer that if she agrees to try it, you’ll let her come. Hornier women usually don't say no. =