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Hi there, perhaps someone can guide me toward a good chastity device. I don't have much background in this area yet. Years ago, I owned just one inexpensive…

member_ca08b9903a 9 Sept 2026 #1

Hi there, perhaps someone can guide me toward a good chastity device. I don’t have much background in this area yet. Years ago, I owned just one inexpensive (and quite poor quality) piece. Everything that could go wrong did; it was merely the beginning of issues when the unit snapped after only a brief period. We haven’t revisited chastity since then, though my girlfriend and I always kept it on our radar until now. We’ve decided to give it another shot, but this time with a quality device. Initially, the Bon4 caught my eye. However, I’ve come across several mentions of its sharp edges and other flaws. Lately, I’m leaning toward the new HolyTrainer V3. The dilemma is picking the right model and understanding what each specification actually means. I took some measurements myself. Measuring from my belly button to the tip while flaccid gives about 100mm in length. For circumference, using a sturdy string around both penis and scrotum yields 140-155mm (averaging 147.5mm), which translates to roughly 45-48mm diameter (avg 46.5mm). If I measure just the penile circumference with that same tension, it’s 100-115mm, or about 32-37mm in diameter (avg 34.5mm). So, should I opt for the standard model or the maxi? And is a Ø 45mm ring better suited than a Ø 50mm one? The interior tube of the standard version measures 55mm long internally, while the maxi extends to 65mm internally. However, this doesn’t account for the entire device’s length including the ring. Looking at product photos and applying proportional logic, the standard model appears to be around 95mm total in length, whereas the maxi looks closer to 106mm. Any advice on which choice would work best? Or is there a completely different type of chastity gear I should consider? Thank you for your assistance! Best wishes Arandus from Germany