Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion
First things first: off-the-shelf manufactured devices are rarely a perfect fit. Chastity devices tend to be somewhat uncomfortable and noticeable, not the…
**First things first: off-the-shelf manufactured devices are rarely a perfect fit. Chastity devices tend to be somewhat uncomfortable and noticeable, not the kind of thing you completely forget about. They aren’t truly orgasm-proof; at best, they are orgasm-resistant. You can still pull out the back if needed. If you seek a non-custom device that fits perfectly, causes no discomfort, is fully orgasm-proof, cannot be pulled out from behind, and allows for extended wear…you might end up disappointed. That said, it’s possible to find one you can actually live with—a good fit that prevents erections and stops you from fiddling unless you really try. I will focus on steel cages. I believe most people lean toward them anyway, and hygiene, comfort, and security are all slightly better with steel. Some avoid them due to travel concerns around metal detectors. I respect that, but there are workarounds, such as explaining to security that you have body jewelry present. Plus, I haven’t owned more than one non-steel cage; the silicone ones were terrible devices. So for this thread, it’s all about steel. Cage length
- What is your flaccid size? Not a slightly chubby measurement, nor the ‘I need to pee’ size, but your sitting-down-in-ice-water size. That represents the ideal cage length.
- Are you circumcised? I am, so I can’t be certain about the end-of-device fit for uncircumciseds, but I’m fairly sure a closed-end design is better for an uncut penis.
- They generally come in three sizes: 28mm, 35mm, and 52 mm. I have one inch flaccid length and wore the 52; it was too long. The 28mm felt a bit scrunched but very comfortable, except I peed all over my sack. The 35mm was just about right (I didn’t like the lock though, which I’ll explain later). Cage diameter
- Choose one that allows movement and room to ‘chub’ inside. This makes cleaning easier and prevents skin from constantly folding on itself, hiding or trapping moisture between it and the device.
- Most inexpensive cages don’t offer different diameters; don’t worry, I think this is the least important dimension. Base ring
- They are usually offered in three sizes: 50mm, 45mm, and 40mm.
- I suggest getting two pairs. The 50mm and the 45mm. These devices are very cheap ($20-30). Buy both; if one doesn’t fit, the other will. Most people would have to work hard to wear a 40 (getting used to it as your sack adjusts), so that size is usually off the menu right away. Gap This isn’t really an option on cheaper devices, but know that a larger base ring provides more room for your sack. Lock I am quite fond of the integrated lock.
- It is very easy to use, and importantly, it’s easy for her to operate. She doesn’t want to be fiddling with screws or aligning a padlock.
- Padlocks usually require a post. A post will turn if there is any play between the lock and the post. Any turning allows testicles to slip out…which is bad.
- Padlocks are pointy, bulky, and noisy.**
**Self-customization Small adjustments you can make to significantly improve your cheap device’s comfort. Nothing too difficult for someone with basic tools.
- Buffing. Some inexpensive devices have tiny rough spots. You can use a Dremel with a buffing disc to smooth them out.
- Bar adjustment. Some cages feature two vertical bars at the end. I’ve found they aren’t spaced closely enough, allowing your penis to slightly push through the gap when aroused. Use a sock and pliers to gently bend the bars closer together. Things to avoid
- Hinged rings; the small hinge gap can catch scrotal skin.
- Sharp edges. Everything should have rounded edges. Things to know
- You aren’t as large as you think. Regarding cage length, if in doubt, go smaller.
- You might feel you need room for growth…you don’t. If you let it start erecting quickly, it will fill up and become painful.
- A loosely fitting base ring hangs low on your sack; when aroused, it pulls down on the sac. Plus, it still won’t fully stop an erection, which builds behind the base ring. So aim for a small base ring worn close to the body. This should give someone enough idea of how to choose their first cage and what to look for.**