Novices and newbies discussion

My wife and I have been doing tease and denial for nearly a year, with her slowly growing more dominant both inside and outside the bedroom. I haven’t had my last ruined orgasm in over a week, nor a full one in six weeks. Over the past few days of our teasing sessions, I pleaded to be permitted to cum, but she stood firm, knowing what is good for me. Away from the bedroom, and for the first time ever, she feels comfortable spending money on herself without checking with me first. It seems she finally understands that her happiness brings me great joy too. I really appreciate how she appears to be becoming a bit more dominant.