Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

Hi everyone! I hesitate to bother you with what might seem like a standard question, but my Sir and I are struggling to find a secure enough cage for me. We’d appreciate your guidance (as well as that of others facing the same issue).

I received a Prince Albert piercing about 1.5 years ago, and after trying urethral catheters with inexpensive cages, I had a new PA placed on November 11th. The challenge is my anatomy: I have low-hanging testicles, small balls, and what we call a “grower” penis (expanding from 6cm to 16cm).

I tried CB6000s, but when there was enough pre-cum, my penis managed to grow out of the cage through the urine slit. Additionally, even with a PA cable, I could still masturbate because the combination of a thin PA cable, a 14mm internal diameter PA piercing, and low hangers allowed too much movement.

The last cage we tested was an CS-100. Surprisingly, my penis began escaping through it as well unless I positioned the PA diagonally to block that exit path via the urine slit.

I also struggle with how people manage such a tight full belt fit. When I tried wearing mine tightly for a day while walking around, I ended up with painful purple marks on my hips and never achieved that V-shape often seen in online photos (it was a Chastity Steel CS-100). Loosening it helped reduce the pain but allowed me to pull my penis out of the tube easily when flaccid because there was enough room for my finger.

Another major surprise—and the primary reason I stopped wearing this full belt—was that bruises developed right where the tube sat. Should I stick with it longer? The edges were smoothed well, yet bruising still occurred.

So, Sir and I are considering a rigid Chastity cage or even a LORI for the glans of the penis. However, my main worries are:

1. With a rigid chastity device, does the size matter much if it just shifts away from my body due to low hangers, requiring me to constantly pull it back up?
2. For someone with a grower penis, won’t a LORI cage for the tip hang on the PA? And will I still be able to move my foreskin during masturbation?

Any advice and suggestions would be greatly appreciated! O.o