Introductions discussion

I’ve been lurking here for a while but have finally gathered the nerve to register. I’m happily married and approaching our 40th anniversary this year. For years, I’ve enjoyed mild bondage and crossdressing; my wife is the dominant partner in our dynamic and loves acting like a sex slave or maid around the house.

Last year we bought our first cage and really liked using it during intercourse. Recently, we’ve leaned more into that direction with longer locking periods, particularly while she’s at work. I retired at 52 because of health problems.

We’re quite shy about these interests and keep them private between us, without telling others. We don’t do much public display—just the occasional local outing where I’m caged. I just completed my first full 24-hour lock after building up to it gradually. My skin feels a bit sore right now, similar to how it felt in those early days, so I expect that discomfort will fade away eventually.

Anyway, that’s plenty from me for now, and thank you for accepting my application.