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Alright, I'm posting my very first thread here. Everything is fresh ground for me. My partner has been in a chastity device for about twelve months now. I've been reading other people's discussions but never bothered to create a profile or join the site until today. So consider this a brand new start!

I really enjoy teasing and taunting my sub over these past few months. He gets incredibly horny, his cage practically oozes and drips with desire. I know he wants out, but it's for his own good! I'm learning to break away from codependency and stop feeling sorry for myself when he is locked up. He struggles a little bit adjusting after being relesaed and allowed to cum. Perhaps I should just keep him locked permanently. What a sweet little boy!

I do not release him anymore.

member_e8699d01c8 · Answer

Welcome to the forum, Goddess Chris. It will be wonderful having another Goddess here for us to listen to.

member_f280f2f378 · Answer

Greetings Goddess Chris,
cindy

member_c8b8200999 · Answer

Goddess,
Welcome to the mansion - where chastity is routine (for male subs and sissies). Don't feel sorry for him, but please explain how you control him.
Aline:cat:

member_de00e86f55 · Answer

Hello Everyone! Thank you so much! To answer Aline's question, I haven't been doing that great at controlling my sub recently. That is actually one of the main reasons I joined this site. He really wants to be a good sub, but I am codependent and lack willpower. If he begs on days when I'm weak, I release him. I need some motivation to stay firm and hold my ground. I was hoping for inspiration from senior members who have been around awhile or are just less codependent, LOL!:sign0144: Because my sub has ADD, I've started giving a to-do list at the start of each week. If he finishes it, he gets strap on time!:smilies_xxx06: He is such a sissy that this reward usually motivates him greatly, but when he fails his list so far, I have only been able to offer whippings:spankwhip:, which don't always revive his motivation. Does anyone have ideas or suggestions?:confused0082:

member_930ab6fb83 · Answer

With respect Goddess// tease and denial sessions pretty much overload my batteries with urges to submit to my Goddess needs. the more i do:chores003:, the more play time Goddess has with me. worst thing Goddess could do is ignore me. leaving me locked up with no attention would be a total bummer.:sad0064:

member_e55fab181a · Answer

:welcome: to the Mansion Goddess Chris.
I struggle with will power too! You might want to try something like the marble game, I found that kept me focused.

member_42991f1982 · Answer

hello there Goddess Chris!::curtsey:: welcome to the only site i know of with such good, focused people on it!

member_972964b66b · Answer

Welcome Goddess Chris. Enjoy your stay at the Mansion.
rachel

member_1b9a8aa789 · Answer

Welcome, Goddess Chris. I know you will find many informative forums and helpful people here. Enjoy your stay.

member_de00e86f55 · Answer

Thank you Mistress Watchful! I will certainly have a look at the Marble Game and hopefully give it a try soon!
Don't worry happypants....I would never ignore my sub. He is the love of my life and I make sure he is well taken care of!
Thanks everybody for your input! I'm excited to be here!

member_bf0d2ce46b · Answer

:welcome: fellow Goddess!!!! It's so nice to have you here. I hold happypants' key, and with some work he's turning into a lovely sub. Please feel free to PM me anytime! You're going to love it here. xo