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We’ve spent a lot of time figuring out the right approach to starting and maintaining this new lifestyle, mostly through my efforts. After taking some time off to discuss what went wrong and how we could both adjust, here is our plan. I’m quitting porn entirely (though I’ll still use this site for posting and support). Because of my job and customer interactions, the CB 6000s won’t be worn constantly, but they should stay on whenever possible. I will consider my penis and balls as hers to command; I’ll only touch them with permission. No more masturbation from me. The only stimulation her cock receives is whatever she gives it. She’ll give me anal at least once a week to reinforce my submissive role. If and when I get the okay to cum, I will eat it up. Most nights involve nothing but me giving her back rubs. I really enjoy it when chastity benefits us both; hopefully this time around things will be different. If you have any tips or encouragement, please share them. Thanks.

Best wishes! Thank you for sharing the update; it’s nice to see people communicating and focusing on the fundamentals... sometimes stepping back (or even a few steps!) helps to start over effectively.

Great news for both of you. We also believe rules are useful and we try to follow them... though I do get punished if they aren't kept well enough.