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Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

I first shared this in the Newbie area but decided it fits better here. It’s been two weeks with the Holy Trainer V2. I’ve taken a gradual approach,…

member_a19f57a334 9 Sept 2026 #1

**I first shared this in the Newbie area but decided it fits better here.

It’s been two weeks with the Holy Trainer V2. I’ve taken a gradual approach, increasing wear time towards overnight periods. The ring size has been my main struggle (not surprising!). I’ve experimented with both 45mm and 40mm rings. Up until today, I mostly stuck to the 45mm because it would fit on at various times of day, whereas the 40mm refused to seat properly.

The device feels comfortable for a while with the 45mm ring, but I often find myself pulling it upward since it hangs quite low instead of sitting snugly against my body. Overnight wear is also tricky; waking up involves rubbing and chafing from both the bottom edge of the ring and the top rim of the tube. It always ends up positioned very low in the morning. So, as soon as I woke up today, I removed it and tried on the 40mm ring. It sits higher than the 45mm feels good after five hours. It seems more comfortable overall, and I’m not constantly adjusting or pulling it up.

However, I wonder if it’s still sitting a bit low rather than hugging my body tightly as intended. Maybe it’s just my specific anatomy? Or perhaps I haven’t seated the ring correctly? Is the 40mm possibly too large for me? Perhaps I should try the 36mm next? I’ve had trouble putting on the 36mm before, but I hadn’t tried it first thing in the morning like I did with the 40mm. ** *I have attached a photo of the device wearing the 40mm ring and would appreciate advice from those with more experience. Any thoughts, opinions, or recommendations are welcome! Thank you!

Aside from these fitting issues, my only other complaint about the V2 is that the tube feels too large for me. I have the small tube version, but there is WAY too much extra space when I am in a resting state. There is significant movement inside; if I’m walking around, my penis bounces quite a bit to and fro. Honestly, I’m fairly petite, so nothing can be done about that or the tube size. It doesn’t hurt unless I’m very active, but it is an annoyance.

This has been a learning curve for me. Despite these issues, I am truly enjoying chastity. My plan is eventually to switch to metal devices which offer more customization options—especially regarding tube sizing. I definitely need something much smaller than the small V2 version. Probably significantly smaller.

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