Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi,

I hadn’t even heard of prostate milking until a few weeks ago. I’ve tried it both by myself and with my partner, and the results have been mixed; so far no success. I also bought a toy for this purpose which occasionally gives me a nice sensation down there, but still no release. Could you give me some pointers on what might be going wrong? Does it take time to develop, am I just missing the right spot, or are some people naturally unable to do it? Any help is appreciated!

> SUTTONSEEDS said: > Hi, > > I hadn't even heard of prostate milking until a few weeks ago. I've tried it both by myself and with my partner, and the results have been mixed; so far no success. I also bought a toy for this purpose which occasionally gives me a nice sensation down there, but still no release. Could you give me some pointers on what might be going wrong? Does it take time to develop, am I just missing the right spot, or are some people naturally unable to do it? SUTTONSEEDS, Welcome! It's great that you're exploring prostate massage. First off, if your prostate is working properly, milking should be possible for you, even though it isn't always straightforward. Second, could you share a bit more detail? Are you familiar with **anal** play in general? Which toy did you purchase to help achieve this goal? How long are you spending during each session trying to milk yourself? Here are some hints: A successful milking is usually easiest after going without ejaculation for a few days. Your prostate produces and stores fluid that gets expelled during an orgasm, so taking a break from ejaculating ensures there's enough fluid available in the gland to be released. Relaxation is another key factor. If you're new to **anal** play, take your time getting comfortable with it rather than rushing ahead. It’s much easier when you can relax and enjoy the process. Regarding toys, I’ve experimented with many, but my favorite so far has been the "Lucid Heart Wand" purchased from Eden Fantasys here: Although it is currently out of **stock** there, I am confident you can locate it elsewhere if interested. It’s also quite affordable. This wand offers several advantages: a) Made of glass, so it is rigid and provides precise pinpoint stimulation exactly where applied without flexing or giving way under pressure. This transfers all the milking force directly to the gland. b) Its curve is nearly perfect for reaching the prostate. Toys lacking this curvature can struggle with certain anatomies. c) It features a comfortable handle, making control simple; it won’t slip or rotate unexpectedly, allowing you to leverage pressure effectively to milk yourself easily. d) Bonus benefits include suitability for temperature play (you can heat it in hot water or chill it in the freezer), being non-porous and sterilizable, and having such a smooth surface that it glides effortlessly while keeping your focus on the prostate. For some individuals, mastering this technique takes time. It may require several sessions to identify the sweet spot inside you, determine the optimal pressure level, and find the best direction of movement for fluid flow. Some people also need longer play times to initiate release, and occasionally no matter what approach you take, your body simply refuses to cooperate in a given session. So remain patient, proceed slowly, practice regularly, and you will get there! Dixiewrecked