Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Back in August 2015, I mailed a lock (keys included) to a fellow I’d been chatting with on fetlife. A few days later, he sent over this proof picture (using my old profile name): [[Image: 11.jpg]](the referenced community page) Most submissives I’ve locked send me messages daily, so we get fairly close. This one was different; he rarely reached out. I messaged him monthly to ask for a photo, yet after six months, our communication remained minimal. Typically, they claim the lock is for my benefit (whether true or not), but this fellow had unclear motives. Fast forward to February 2018… Two days ago, while organizing my email contacts, I found his details. I sent him a note and he replied that he was still locked! It seemed hard to believe, so I asked for another proof photo… [[Image: 12.jpg]](the referenced community page) You might be skeptical; I am too! He wrote, “Surprisingly enough, perhaps I am indeed still locked. To confess, I did think about breaking the device off a few times, but on reflection, realized that I don’t miss using it much anymore. So I put the thought aside and left it in place… I’ve grown to care little for that function since I doubt I’ll have any use for it.” I asked how he handles cleaning; his reply was: “Power shower and hair drier, plus a dusting of medicated talc… Hygiene-wise, it takes extra effort and can be somewhat challenging, but not insurmountable. Chaffing used to be an issue for a long while, but baby oil and time fixed that.” I brought up health concerns regarding extended locking; he said: “Yes, I recall seeing something about that, though nothing truly compelling honestly. Also read pieces contradicting it. It is actually possible to achieve an orgasm whilst in chastity, which of course you know. The downsides are: a) it’s quite the hassle and b) even if you succeed, it’s the most frustratingly pleasureless experience imaginable, far worse than not ejaculating at all.” So there you have it; a very curious case. Locked for two and a half years! I see no reason to think he is lying; he has nothing to gain from deceiving me. I might encourage him to join the site so he can share his side of the story.

Forgive my cynicism, but I suspect he has figured out how to pick the lock!