Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! Just to keep things clear moving forward, ‘we’ refers to both Asher Shockley and me. We’re a polyamorous pair living in southern California, both in our early-to-mid thirties, and we’ve been together for about two years (we aren’t great at remembering exact dates, so it happened pretty quickly without us pinpointing the day, though I get to choose which date is our third anniversary, which I find lovely). Our kinks meshed easily, and chastity was a fantasy of ours from the very beginning. We got a device as soon as we could! Both of us enjoy researching gear, and after some time, settled on a Queen’s Keep from Mature Metal. The sizing process was enjoyable to say the least. Outside this lifestyle, he is a computer programmer and language nerd who loves gaming, while I am his creative artist gamer wife.

It’s turning out to be quite rewarding yet challenging, confusing, and even scary for both of us. Even though I’m shy about public forums, I decided to introduce myself on the site hoping to find friends and mentors for our journey. Thank you to everyone who welcomed me privately; I look forward to meeting more of you. Please feel free to ask questions—we are open and social people. Aside from obviously private details, we like sharing information if it satisfies polite curiosity or helps others in their own process.

I plan to write about us on my page or using the journal function (still figuring out all the site features), but I usually type on my phone, so even short replies can take me a bit longer. Thanks for your patience with that.

Again, thank you for the warm welcome and I look forward to continuing here.

Best, Fox