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Greetings everyone, I believe many will find this experience fascinating. A while back, another gentleman reached out to me on Emlalock… he made the error of using his Twitter handle as his name and began following me. This revealed that he is a Polish monk—which sparked my curiosity immediately. We chatted for three weeks before I invited him into the lock; naturally, I had plenty of uncertainties… My conscience kept reminding me this might be a rigorous key holding experience. I needed to understand why a man who has vowed lifelong chastity requires third-party control; specifically from a woman; and how we could make the dynamic appropriate for a clergyman… It turns out he has served as a counselor for women for over two decades, supporting those broken by difficult upbringings, former addicts, or sex workers. Initially, I thought he needed to suppress certain emotions or reactions. However! He shares that after talking with them, he feels feminized and develops an interest in various feminine subjects, which frustrates him because he craves his masculinity. The cage will serve as a reminder of this. Furthermore, he likely benefits from female guidance to help clarify matters unfamiliar to him due to growing up in all-male monasteries since childhood. So, I was persuaded. Unlike my usual approach, there won’t be any sexual undertones during this session (with no time limit): no physical checks or teasing, and I won’t cause frustration that might complicate things further (I’m heading to hell anyway, but I didn’t want him to board quickly…) Instead, the focus is on conversation and mutual discovery. I promised him I’d explain more about BDSM as we go… I’ll update you all on how this session progresses!:) G*