Female led relationships discussion

Some time back, I shared the ying and yang discussion, which turned out to be wonderful for us thanks to everyone here contributing such great insights. I really took that advice on board, focusing more attention on my Wife while trying not to put myself first as much regarding what I need. The two most helpful suggestions were getting her some reading material and picking a good crop. So I did both of those things. She read the books, which instantly shifted how she carried herself and gave her a bit more self-assurance. I also got her that lovely crop. The main thing is I promised to quit smoking but kept struggling with it. Adding extra days didn’t seem enough to stop me, so now every time I slip up, I get corrected with the crop, starting last night. Well, last night she really let loose and gave me a proper thrashing—harder hits and more swats than usual. Good heavens, it stung! I was nearly crying. Afterward, she checked her handiwork and noted that there were only red marks left, suggesting my rear can take even more (yikes)! I asked how disciplining me so harshly made her feel, and without missing a beat, “powerful” came the answer, followed by a huge smile and an order for me to massage her legs. My backside felt like I was sitting on asphalt baking in the sun, but she mentioned that next time it will feel like scalding water. This whole experience pushes me deeper into submission under Her influence, while boosting her confidence even higher. Saying She looked radiant is putting it mildly; She radiated authority. I’m so happy we found this place—it’s been great for both of us. For me, swallowing some bitter pills has become easier and more humbling, while for Her, it has raised Her assurance and dominance to new levels. I can’t picture what growing up as a woman in a man-dominated world feels like, but I believe this is unleashing the strength inside her that society often suppresses in women. Thanks all!