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Hi there! I decided to make a post instead of just watching from the sidelines. I'm an attractive guy with some grey hair, but I stay in good shape. I've…

member_9d22534537 29 Aug 2026 #1

Hi there! I decided to make a post instead of just watching from the sidelines. I’m an attractive guy with some grey hair, but I stay in good shape. I’ve always had an interest in BDSM; I’d say I lean towards being submissive, and I am VERY worshipful of women. In my view, they are goddesses! I have experienced a bit over the years, and here in the UK I have local friends who share this lifestyle. A few years back, I discovered chastity play, purchasing first a curve model and later a CB3000. Locking myself up proved to be a profound spiritual experience for me, making me yearn for a woman’s hand to hold that key. Essentially, when my own right to orgasm was taken away, it helped me focus completely on pleasing her, which is exactly what I have always wanted. So, I suppose I am here seeking like-minded people and hoping to reach that goal eventually. Even now, just thinking about it drives me wild! I long for the day when the urge to orgasm is removed from me. Only then will I truly see a woman in all her beauty, making her pleasure my only source of joy. That, to me, is heaven.

member_e55fab181a 30 Aug 2026 #2

What a delightful post!:welcome: Your timezone tells me you are another Brit (we've had quite an influx lately which pleases me NO end!!!) but it would be great if you could fill out your profile a bit more:party-094: Enjoy your time here at the Mansion, and I hope you find what you are looking for.

member_f1c2f01cfb 31 Aug 2026 #3

welcome aboard:anim_53:

member_a20ea82833 1 Sept 2026 #4

Welcome scubielock. I'm new here too. I've been welcomed with open arms. So I think you will enjoy your stay here.

member_1b9a8aa789 2 Sept 2026 #5

Welcome scubielock- Why are all the good ones either taken or so far away?! Anyway, I'm sure you will find what you are looking for here at the Mansion. The people are so friendly and helpful. Hope to see you around. Ms.Linda

member_23ca01c14f 3 Sept 2026 #6

I am new here as well welcome

member_9d22534537 4 Sept 2026 #7

Thanks all! I have updated my profile as Mistress Watchful has asked, but can't find out how to upload my picture. I am sure I will figure it out soon. And yes, I am from London UK. Incidentally I am interested in the links between chastity, BDSM and tantra. I think submission and chastity is good for guys.

member_e55fab181a 5 Sept 2026 #8

Sorry you're having picture troubles! You should go to User CP and then choose Edit Avatar from the Settings section. Make sure it is within the size limits and you should be able to do it:anim_32:

member_cf2fbfb781 6 Sept 2026 #9

welcome to the site. I hope you will enjoy it

member_9d22534537 6 Sept 2026 #10

> Ms.Linda said: > Welcome scubielock- Why are all the good ones either taken or so far away?! Anyway, I'm sure you will find what you are looking for here at the Mansion. > The people are so friendly and helpful. > Hope to see you around. > Ms.Linda > Click to expand... Ahhh, Ms Linda... your signature contains one of my favourite quotes... here is the full version... I agree with you... Two roads diverged in a yellow wood and sorry I could not travel both And be one traveller, long I stood and looked down one as far as I could to where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair, and having perhaps the better claim because it was grassy and wanted wear; thought as for that, the passing there had worn them really about the same, And both that morning equally lay in leaves no feet had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I -- I took the one less travelled by, and that has made all the difference

member_9d22534537 7 Sept 2026 #11

> Mistress Watchful said: > Sorry you're having picture troubles! > You should go to User CP and then choose Edit Avatar from the Settings section. > Make sure it is within the size limits and you should be able to do it:anim_32: > Click to expand... Got it! Thank you so much, Mistress Watchful

member_bf0d2ce46b 8 Sept 2026 #12

> scubielock said: > Hello, I thought I would do a post rather than lurk! > I am a good looking guy with a few grey hairs, but I keep myself fit. I have always been interested in BDSM, I guess I am largely submissive, and VERY worshipful of women. I think they are godesses! > I have done a few things in my life, and have local friends in the UK who are into this lifestyle. > A few years ago I learned about chastity play, and bought a curve, then later a CB3000. I found that locking myself up was a deeply spiritual experience, which has made me crave the hand of a woman to hold that key. Basically, I found that when denied my own right to orgasm, it made me concentrate entirely on pleasuring a woman, which is, in fact, what I have always wanted to do. > So I guess my reason in being here is to find like minded people and to acheive that goal one day. Even now, just thinking about it, is driving me crazy! I long for the day when the temptation to orgasm is taken from me. Only then will I see woman in all her beauty, and make her pleasure the sole source of my pleasure. That's what I call being in heaven. > Click to expand... Oh my. I like you already. Lovely post!!! I look forward to hearing more about you. Welcome to the mansion!!!:butterfly:

member_e55fab181a 9 Sept 2026 #13

> scubielock said: > Got it! > Thank you so much, Mistress Watchful > Click to expand... No problem... and I approve! Glad you're getting to grips with things... well not ALL things! Some things are better off being left alone rather than gripped!:spider: