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Alright, I've been debating whether to post this here for a while. I've spent the last month working and looking around without much success. Roughly six…

member_6345ae6af0 29 Aug 2026 #1

Alright, I’ve been debating whether to post this here for a while. I’ve spent the last month working and looking around without much success. Roughly six weeks ago, my wife had an in-depth conversation with me where she made it clear that right now she has zero interest in chastity, milking, or anything related to sissy play. She is interested in BDSM though, and we have experimented a little bit with anal, but the chastity aspect isn’t clicking yet.

During this talk, we decided I could find someone either online or nearby to help manage my chastity routine. The catch was that there shouldn’t be any intimate contact between us; it would mainly be a keyholder arrangement. Her suggestion was for me to locate someone who could instruct me on when to masturbate and milk, as well as other sissy activities. She didn’t mind if I sent some limited photos if we were long-distance.

ANYWAYS, I’ve been searching without success over the last month, which is why I hesitated about posting here. If you’re interested in taking this on as a side project or part-time role, send me a PM and let’s talk details. To the admins: I checked for rules regarding this type of post but didn’t find any specific ones, so hopefully I haven’t broken anything. If I have, please feel free to delete it and message me!:)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)

member_e55fab181a 8 Sept 2026 #2

No worries, it's perfectly fine to ask for a KH. I'll go ahead and move your thread over to the Lost and Found section for you.:whip: