Introductions discussion

I was struggling with masturbation and my performance wasn’t what it used to be. After working through some difficulties, I persuaded my wife that we should try locking me up, where she unlocks me only when we choose to have sex. Our intimacy has improved by 100 percent, and I feel youthful again, like I’m in my twenties. Typically, I stay locked during the workweek and am free on weekends. She now really enjoys putting me in lockup and mentioned that our sex life wasn’t great before this change. We aren’t strictly dominant/submissive because that dynamic doesn’t define us personally. Does anyone else have a similar story?

It sounds like it's working well for you, so congratulations to both of you on finding such a beneficial approach for your relationship. I identify as definitely submissive, but I don't lean heavily into the punishment aspect. I suppose we all interpret this kink in our own unique ways.