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Greetings. I'm a newcomer here, so let's hope that doesn't put anyone off. While I've been dabbling in chastity for roughly half a decade, this is my first…

member_4d97ff7fe7 10 Sept 2026 #1

Greetings. I’m a newcomer here, so let’s hope that doesn’t put anyone off. While I’ve been dabbling in chastity for roughly half a decade, this is my first time with an actual key holder, hence why I am posting today.

I own both a Holy Trainer and a Chronovault, and I’m on the hunt for an active partner who will engage somewhat (otherwise, I’d just manage the lock myself). For those familiar with it, I can keep the device attached continuously from start to finish.

A bit about my experience:

Chastity has been part of my life for around five years now. However, self-control hasn’t always been my strong suit; before getting a key holder, I struggled to go beyond four days without cheating. Usually, when I lock myself up on my own, I end up watching porn because that specific type of frustration turns me on. That said, I bought the Chronovault specifically to extend the time between releases. In total, I’ve spent about 80 days locked up so far, with a single session lasting 14 days (though I personally prefer sessions ranging from five to ten days).

I’m not particularly into humiliation, cross-dressing, sissyification, or anal play. If you ask for photos or videos, I can provide them—I believe I will at least—since this is my first time with a real key holder. One rule: I never show my face.

You’ll find that I respond well to interaction and am available almost all the time between meetings (with occasional interruptions). My timezone is GMT +1.

If you think we might be a good match, feel free to send me a message.

Cheers, -A