Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Getting Started. I have spent too much time as a slave to the habit of seeking relief through frequent masturbation-induced orgasms. (High libido, many kinks), I masturbate multiple times daily and it has become burdensome. There is excessive focus on getting that release, which keeps my attention fixed on the next opportunity for relief. Therefore, I feel that submitting myself to a self-locking chastity cage could be my best path forward, as I expect this will effectively block stimuli reaching my penis. The purpose of wearing chastity isn’t to remain perpetually aroused or horny; in fact, it is quite the opposite—I want to stop thinking about my penis because it is unavailable. Managing Arousal Being self-locked doesn’t eliminate arousal entirely, so I am seeking methods to counteract it or relieve it without triggering an orgasm. I have read that prostate milking can be achieved without resulting in orgasms and seems like a solid approach. Prostate Milking: How? I wonder if prostate milking would effectively keep things under control, i.e., minimize arousal? And how frequently should one do it? For me, the goal of milking is to stay on track and gradually become accustomed to being in chastity, more or less permanently. Toys for Passive Milking? Next up: what is the most effective self-operated toy for this purpose? I’ve heard about the njoy wand, but that seems to require time and active effort? The ideal solution for me would be a discreet yet powerful hands-free P-spot massager that gently milks me while I go about my day—walking the dog, shopping for groceries, etc. It’s not something I’d do daily, but rather when I sense tension building; insert the massager, get relief, and continue with life.