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Yesterday, I chose to lock myself in for a test run so I could get comfortable with the cage. Today we had a birthday party to attend. This was my first…

member_046fa23f26 10 Sept 2026 #1

Yesterday, I chose to lock myself in for a test run so I could get comfortable with the cage. Today we had a birthday party to attend. This was my first time being out and about while in chastity! She glanced at me and giggled, or maybe smiled or winked several times; she mentioned how much she loves that it’s our little secret, unknown to others. She said she thinks she’ll really enjoy this setup.

We stayed mostly at a dance bar all evening. I played some pool (constantly staring at her when not taking shots) and cuddled with her for a while as usual. Then, off she went to dance with her cousins like normal. I watched her sway through one song… What happened next was totally unusual for me…

I walked up and danced with her.

I don’t really dance—I can barely do it—but there I was grinding against her on the floor. I’m pretty certain she LOVED getting that attention from me.

Having such a wonderful time, when we returned home, I handed over all the keys to her (including the emergency key which I had insisted on keeping). No hesitation, no second-guessing. Just gave them up and said, “It’s your call now.”

I’ll likely need reminding that I literally asked for this situation… but honestly, I can’t wait for it to become necessary!