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Greetings everyone, I'm fairly new to this scene. I've finally worked up the courage and ordered a metal spiral chastity device, which arrived on Friday.…

member_198794b610 11 Sept 2026 #1

Greetings everyone,

I’m fairly new to this scene. I’ve finally worked up the courage and ordered a metal spiral chastity device, which arrived on Friday. It’s been self-locked for two days now.

My goal is to keep it worn as long as possible while keeping things interesting. Any advice would be appreciated!

Thanks in advance for your help.

member_261c7352c4 12 Sept 2026 #2

Don't go overboard during the first few times you wear it out. You might end up turning yourself against wearing it if you push too hard initially. Take a gradual approach instead. Best of luck!