Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hello everyone,

We have a arrangement where we meet in person about once a month, while the rest of our group lives far away. During those times together, we prefer to wear chastity devices around the clock without issue, relying on trust. However, my keyholder wants a more ‘smart’ type of lockbox.

Essentially, she needs to be able to unlock it remotely when I need access for cleaning, and ideally there’s an override code available; if that override is used, she should get notified. We’ve looked at several smart boxes, but most only connect via Bluetooth. For our setup to work well over distance, Wi-Fi or cellular connectivity would be much better.

Does anyone have a recommendation? I thought it worth asking here since many people are likely in similar circumstances and may know of existing products, DIY fixes, or alternative methods that give her more control and certainty regarding when I unlock for cleaning duties.

Edit - I checked out the keyholding methods thread but didn’t spot anything quite right because we need to be able to lock and unlock multiple times while apart. Hopefully, insights from others in similar situations will help.