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I am going to share some of the bizarre and selfish messages I receive, some are from fetish sites, some are from non fetish sites like twitter and…

member_65fa0f18b2 11 Sept 2026 #1

I am going to share some of the bizarre and selfish messages I receive, some are from fetish sites, some are from non fetish sites like twitter and instagram. All are the first contact with the person. My profile states I am not looking for anything or anyone, but none of them seem to read it. I thought submissive males were supposed to put the person they are serving first, but none of the messages have anything to do with anything I have written on my profile and they are all out for self gratification. I haven’t included all the thousands of first messages that are:

  • Penis photos (or worse)
  • Just a phone number
  • Asking where I am from and my age, even though it’s on my profile
  • The ones that just say “Hi” I’m not kink shaming any of the fetishes, this post is about men who try to use me for fetishes I have shown no interest in, while pretending to serve me. I have hidden all the profile names apart from a few that were public comments. I have an inexhaustible supply! Here’s a few to start with… [Image: 8.PNG] [Image: 9.PNG] [Image: 11.jpg] [Image: 12.jpg] [Image: 13.PNG] [Image: 16.jpg] [Image: 17.jpg] [Image: 18.jpg] [Image: 19.jpg]
member_65fa0f18b2 11 Sept 2026 #2

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I've posted this one before, but it deserves a repost:) [Image: s.jpg]

member_65fa0f18b2 11 Sept 2026 #6

How is this serving me? [Image: 1.PNG] [Image: 2.PNG] [Image: 3.PNG]

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Not even willing to travel, he wants women to come to him. [Image: 10.PNG]

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member_65fa0f18b2 12 Sept 2026 #11

Some turn nasty when they don't get a reply.... [Image: 7.jpg] [Image: IMG_0779.PNG] [Image: IMG_0786.PNG] [Image: Untitleddwdwdwdw.jpg] [Image: Untitleddwdwdwdwdwdwdwdw.jpg] [Image: Untitledgtgt.jpg] [Image: Untitledr3r3r3.jpg] [Image: Untitledrerere.jpg]

member_65fa0f18b2 12 Sept 2026 #12

Not the best way to approach a woman.... [Image: 88.jpg]

member_65fa0f18b2 12 Sept 2026 #13

The ones who ask this never have a photo of their own face.... [Image: 98.jpg]

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member_65fa0f18b2 12 Sept 2026 #17

Not the kind of thing you want coming up on your phone when you're having dinner with your parents, or ever. [Image: a92.PNG]

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