Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

About being locked up for the past month way to much. So Thursday night I had a few beers befor bed time kissed my wife good night. Went up to shower and locked up put the keys in my sock drawer. Friday morning I get a picture message from my wife it was the keys not in my drawer. She told me I should have asked her to lock up and that it’s going to be reall different from now on. I asked her what she ment and that i was only planing on staying locked up till saterday morning. She only sed don’t ask to be let out and it’s going to be serious this time and that she had read the key holder bool i got for her about 5 years ago. I’m kind of in shock longest we have done this was about 9 days. I think that book says 3 months minimum I can’t do that. I’m little freaked out. Had to tell someone . Sorry about the spelling and length of this.