Online chastity and self locking discussion

I know you think you are, but you’re wrong. Self-locking implies your penis is your property. It isn’t. Your penis belongs to someone. Maybe you haven’t met her or maybe she doesn’t know yet, but you will and she will.

Your job is to keep your penis safe and in good working order until she acknowledges her ownership of it. You do NOT have permission to play with it. You’ve naively played with it thousands of times despite not having permission and hopefully she’ll forgive you for that, but now that you’ve realized it isn’t yours, playing with it would be selfish and that she won’t forgive. Unlock as needed to keep clean, but otherwise keep your hands off of HER property.

With the time and energy you’re saving by not stealing from her, you need to be going out and trying to find her or helping her understand. She won’t just one day walk up to you and demand you give her what is hers by right. You need to make it happen or it won’t and you’ll have deprived her of what’s hers through your laziness or fear.