Online chastity and self locking discussion

Well here is the very TRUE story of how I just messed up on Emlalock. I was trying to adopt a session using my phone. I clicked upload picture and took the photo which uploads directly without saving it locally. Without thinking, I scrambled the lock as I hit the adopt button for the session. Then BOOM - session requirements not met. So here I am sitting locked in my cage with my keys inside the lockbox and unable to get them back. I remembered my ex had the spare key. So now I truly am at her mercy since I have had to ask her if she even still has that spare key. If not then what can I do?? It is an internal lock so can’t just cut it off like a padlock. It is also a steel cage.