Novices and newbies discussion

Hello everyone,

I hope you can excuse how newb I am with this question… And let’s hope it lands in the right forum…:-) x

I’m dealing with a very practical issue - I’d really appreciate any suggestions or help!

While I’m not entirely green, I’ve fallen behind on the latest developments. Most of the newer devices seem overly complicated to me, lol!

I have (or had) CB2000, CB3000, CB6000s, Bon4, and Holy Trainer 2 models, yet none truly manage to “prevent” an erection. I get that it involves mental conditioning etc., but right now, I’m really struggling to keep things under control at all. Previously, chemical approaches helped suppress these activities (you know what I mean…;-)

However - Yesterday, a mature male dominant friend of mine (who is well aware of my sissy side and dressing habits, though she herself is firmly into women) surprised me by inviting me to a concert. At the end of our chat, she said, “Let’s make it an actual date - I want you wearing a cock cage and pink panties for me.”

It doesn’t sound like much… And since I prefer guys anyway, that’s not a problem (hmmm…) - but I’ve spent 24 hours with a throbbing erection. To try and calm things down, I masturbated seven times (a personal record) and am now panicking. This was completely out of character for her and has blown my mind - hence the post.

In the past, two CB3000s have snapped due to erections, so I’m skeptical that anything currently in my closet will help much.

I recall reading years ago about feminization magazines discussing “preventing erection with extreme pain,” which I always thought was more fantasy than reality - they seemed to be promoting Lori’s Tubes back then.

I understand the excitement might fade over time, but right now, I’m constantly erect. The breathing exercises, meditation, and “don’t think about it” techniques aren’t working…;-0

My size is roughly 0.5”-1” soft (micropenis range), but unfortunately around 7” when fully hard, with a girth of 1.5”.

So please forgive my somewhat naive questions:-

1. Do any modern devices actually stop erections? (without breaking…)
2. Are there other device types that could help? - e.g., those with urethral inserts or specific shapes like metal coils and spiral cages.
3. Are all non-metal devices fundamentally prone to stress-related breakage?
4. Any specific recommendations on type or setup that might work for me?

Any responses are gratefully received:-)

Thank you for reading, Lucy A. xxx

Steel.