Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

She was completely new to the world of kink when I came along. She has loved every introduction I’ve made (foot worship, chastity, bondage, and putting me through humiliation). However, my main issue is that I always have to pitch the ideas. As a submissive, I feel guilty because she ends up fulfilling MY desire—whether it happens right then or later—but she rarely brings anything of her own initiative. I just want to please her. She’s in control now, but she needs to take hold of the reins. Any suggestions?:) Thanks everyone! -Marr

I am facing a very similar predicament. The way it is usually presented goes like this: "do with this as you will. If it interests or excites you, run with it and see where things go. if you dislike it or find it boring, move on to something more interesting"