Introductions discussion

I’m not currently wearing a device, but I’ve taken on self-imposed chastity.

I attend several munches in my local area. The other night, I chatted with a Domme who enjoys kicking and ballbusting. After watching some videos of the latter, I was struck by how incredibly intimidating yet erotic it seems; it also feels like such an empowering act for women toward men. But the pain… surely it must be intense? Once you take one solid kick, you’re down for a bit, left completely helpless. I suspect that will remain more of a fantasy for me.

Later at another munch, I met someone else—an absolutely delightful Domme. The community is full of such nice people. My devilish side is rising now; I need to do something about finding an owner. So, I plan to attend a few more munches around London and perhaps venture further out. Traveling for work helps too—my routine involves being in Reading on Thursdays through Saturdays, so my evenings are open for me to check out events there.

I’m curious if anyone else here goes to munches? It would be wonderful to connect with people face-to-face. Who knows, maybe I’ll find “the one” someday. As someone told me recently: you have to get out and meet folks because adult life doesn’t just see adults knocking on your door asking to come play. That really got me thinking!

So, is anyone up for a meetup?

You might be a bit too far from where I live on the other side of the pond. However, I know there's been talk about organizing a "gathering" (which just reminded me of that Highlander reference) in Europe at some point down the road. Madam and I are currently working on putting one together here in the Midwest USA, where we seem to have quite a cluster of members as well.

> madamsboy said: > You might be a bit too far from where I live on the other side of the pond. However, I know there's been talk about organizing a "gathering" (which just reminded me of that Highlander reference) in Europe at some point down the road. Madam and I are currently working on putting one together here in the Midwest USA, where we seem to have quite a cluster of members as well. > Click to expand... That's interesting; I'd definitely try to make it. But I was mainly thinking about anyone located within the London area, which hosts many regular munches. Hopefully, I'll meet someone at one of these gatherings. I'm also wondering if any UK residents in or near London attend them? (For those unfamiliar with a "munch," it's essentially a vanilla pub meetup for BDSM enthusiasts—many of whom enjoy chastity play.)

We've attended a local munch advertised on Informed Consent in the Farnborough area, though we aren't really locals there anymore. I haven't been to the Reading one yet, but I know from IC that there's quite a bit of activity happening over there. We also considered visiting Kinx@Pink in Milton Keynes. It's not local, but it looked worth the trip for their play party. Send me a PM if you spot anything; pet and I might just manage to arrange a babysitter and come say hello!:manga_partypopper: