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To help keep things tidy, I’ve merged my Week 1 and Week 2 updates into this single thread and will use it for all future progress reports. If you’re already caught up on Wks 1 & 2, feel free to skip ahead to Week 4; otherwise, go right through.

*** Week 1 *** I’ve just hit the one-week mark in my lock. Since I didn’t plan this out beforehand, I wasn’t sure what to expect or how to prepare. On the night of September 18th, I dove straight into it without much forethought about what lay ahead. Overall, it’s been a solid week, and I wanted to share some observations from a newcomer…

• I purchased my Asylum 4 cage at a nearby adult shop. Seeing one in person gives you a different view than browsing online. I picked this model for three main reasons: first, it features an open steel design; second, the downward curve makes it less obvious under clothes; and third, I can take out the urethra insert to use that opening for my PA (penile attachment) to secure the head of my penis. Generally, I’m pleased with this choice. The weight is noticeable but not overwhelming—being a long-time steel cockring user probably helped me adjust better. However, the cage does press against a piercing at the base of my shaft. It’s uncomfortable and might be causing some irritation, so I’ll keep an eye on it. I’ve increased the size of the ball trap ring to see if that creates more space. If it works out, great; if not, that piercing may need removal.

• Cleaning cages is tougher than I anticipated, particularly while wearing one. I constantly forget that my encased member can’t move much around. LOL The various tips on CM have been useful, and I’m getting the hang of it now.

• Sitting down to pee has become second nature over time. With my PA before, I sometimes managed standing up, but with this cage, I haven’t quite adapted to that yet. Not sure if I’ll be able to stand comfortably while locked in the future.

• It feels strange having a dick between your legs when you know it’s there, only to grab hold and feel nothing but steel. I miss sensing my own flesh more directly.

• My cage keeps me on schedule. Around 4:30–5 AM, morning wood reliably wakes me up. WOW, dealing with trapped erections is intense and quite uncomfortable. The harder the erection gets, the greater the strain and discomfort. It’s not necessarily painful per se, but you definitely know you’re locked in. Again, the advice here has been tremendous for getting through these episodes.

• I had to travel to Florida this week and managed to remove my cage just before TSA security and put it back on afterward. It took a bit of time to handle, but I did get it done. I even wore it while swimming without any issues under speedos or thongs. One thing though: the brass lock that came with it is starting to show signs of rusting internally. Any recommendations for a waterproof replacement lock would be greatly appreciated.

• Emotionally speaking, I’m finding myself surprisingly content. There’s no anger or frustration bubbling up, nor do I feel an urgent need to tear the cage off just to reach my genitals. Similarly, the strong urges I had before being caged—wanting a hard-on, frequent masturbation, and watching porn whenever possible—have largely faded away. I feel very at ease in this locked state with no desire to be set free.

• Expect another update within a week or so. Thank you for letting me share!!!

*** Week 2 *** Week 2 is complete, and my Locktober journey has officially begun. Apart from proper grooming sessions, I’ve remained continuously locked. I think Sundays will become my designated grooming days. At the start of this second week, there were two issues I was addressing…1) the cage pressing on my piercing, and 2) whether my ball trap ring was too small.

First off, my piercing wasn’t reacting well to the cage’s movement. It hurt, got irritated, and the jewelry caught inside the cage pulled at the piercing enough to cause bleeding—not good news. Once that happened, I took out the piercing immediately. What relief! The hole has healed over beautifully and is no longer a problem. I sacrificed my piercing for the sake of being locked.

As for ring size, nighttime erections were really testing me initially. I was waking up three to four times per night because I couldn’t tolerate it anymore. I increased the ring size to 2 inches. While this allowed me to sleep through most nights, I woke up one morning finding the ring had slid halfway down my genitals. I swear it would have fallen off completely if my PA hadn’t been locking the head of my dick to the cage. That setup just wasn’t sustainable. So, I went back to the 1¾-inch ring and started adjusting its position around my scrotum to see if placement mattered more than size. Moving the ring forward pushed my testicles toward the front, creating slack behind it for erections. It worked beautifully. Now, I make that slight adjustment every night.

What surprises me most is how easy this whole experience has become. I absolutely love being in this cage and have no interest in changing anything right now. No anxiety or frustration about staying locked; it just feels right and like a natural part of who I am—just as it should be. My urges to watch porn and masturbate have dropped significantly too. For the moment, release isn’t even on my mind.

Stepping into Week 3 with renewed focus and attitude each day!

*** Week 4 *** Happy Half-way Locktober!!! October 16th also marked my fourth week locked in. Time has actually flown by faster than I expected. Gradually, I’m getting used to its presence and navigating challenges like only being able to sit to pee, handling gym workouts (will underwear or swimwear show the cage?), keeping things clean without removals, etc. Overall, no major complaints. Currently trying not to remove my cage for cleaning purposes. Using different methods to clean inside the cage and underneath my member. I really don’t want to take it off yet; let’s see how long we can manage together. This is now my second consecutive week of leaving it in place for hygiene checks. Watching closely, hoping deeply that removal won’t be necessary.

Since locking myself away, several noticeable changes have occurred. First, libido has dropped substantially from a boiling point to a gentle simmer. Desire for both porn and sex is nearly zero. No frantic pulling at hair trying to escape the cage just to masturbate. Tried watching some porn recently—it doesn’t stir much emotion anymore in me now. Gone days without looking at it once before; very different compared to pre-lock times.

Emotions have tempered too—I feel calmer and more laid-back about life things generally, showing greater tolerance for change and frustration than usual. Not perfect by any means, but certainly improved. Honestly hard to remember when last felt quite like this—very refreshing indeed! There are still some aspects I miss though due to being locked down constantly. Firstly, losing the ability to visibly see my erection develop—it’s odd knowing you’re getting hard in public yet it remains hidden beneath layers. Secondly, not feeling able to grab hold of your own flesh anymore feels surreal when touching steel instead. Lastly during showers missing out on direct water sensations hitting skin directly—may sound trivial but worth noting.

Where does it all go from here? More and more often sensing as though never wanting unlock ever again—it truly become part myself also learning about urethra inserts considering whether pursue including that option—not rushing decision regarding smaller devices yet. So far satisfied what received! Thanks everyone supporting journey!!