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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Alright, this is my first time starting a new thread here. A bit about myself. I’m 46, total alpha male type, own a small business where I handle sales and…

member_5461750a42 11 Sept 2026 #1

Alright, this is my first time starting a new thread here. A bit about myself. I’m 46, total alpha male type, own a small business where I handle sales and work in the trades, with a pretty dominating personality. Folks see me as cocky, but I can usually back it up. Divorced now, living with my Kh for roughly five to six years. Before meeting her, I was quite the “player.” She seems to have changed me—or perhaps just brought out the best in me. I got into chastity a bit over a year ago via Tumblr. Picked up an original Holy Trainer (a bit too big), then tried the Vice (loved/hated it simultaneously) and the CB6000s (decent, but still pinched). The Holy Trainer V2s were comfortable though not perfect due to hygiene concerns. Then I bought a Master Series metal cage. I absolutely love it. It stays put even when mountain biking in the cold, with zero hygiene problems and almost the perfect fit. Well, I did Loctober, but when they took it off on Nov 1st, apparently the caged pinched my penis and cut me a bit. Healed up now though. Anyway, I’ve been locked for about ten days, unsure of exactly when I’ll be unlocked. My Kh joked about unlocking me around Christmas, saying once she “clones your willy,” there’s no reason to keep you shut. That sounds kind of scary but also super exciting at the same time. Walking around with a full sack all day makes me horny 24/7. If someone had told me five years ago that I’d go months without sex, I would have called them crazy. Before, I couldn’t last more than five days. But now? I never want to go back. Now that my penis has a home, it’s where it belongs. All animals should be caged. She was lucky enough to use the strapon I’ve owned for about ten years but had never used on me before. Granted we were short on time, she did it anyway, and I think she’s looking forward to doing it again. I feel like I’ve found heaven. Mike from Boston suburbs.