Female led relationships discussion

My Mistress Wife and I went to Her Christmas party last night. She was dressed in a short black dress, sheer black pantyhose, and black stilettos. The Mistress had a great time with lots of drinks and dancing. She let me dance with her a few times, but mostly she danced with other girls from her workplace. As the evening went on, it became clear that she was drawing attention from other men, which made her happy to flirt with them. At the end of the night, when a slow song started playing and couples began pairing up, I noticed her standing alone on the dance floor. I walked over for a slow dance with my Wife, but once I arrived, I couldn’t spot her immediately. I stood in the middle looking around until I realized she was dancing closely with another guy nearby. I approached them and stood beside their pair. They both looked at me but kept right on dancing very close together. After about 30 seconds next to them, She signaled for me to come closer and said loudly enough for the other man to hear, ‘Can’t you see I’m busy? Go outside and wait.’ I hesitated for a moment, then she added, ‘Do you need telling twice?’ To which I answered, ‘No.’ Then she asked, ‘No what?’ I bowed my head slightly and replied, ‘No Mistress,’ causing them both to laugh. I walked away and waited outside as instructed. Twenty minutes later, my Wife came out alone. She took my hand and placed it under her dress; the crotch of her pantyhose had ripped open, and her panties were soaked through. Looking me straight in the eye, she said, ‘Don’t ever show me up like that again, do you understand?’ I replied, ‘Yes Mistress.’ On the drive home, her cell phone chimed with a message. The Mistress giggled and remarked, ‘Looks like I have another real man in my life now.’

Priceless! rachel

Thanks Rachel. It was incredibly humiliating standing there while they ignored me and then being scolded in front of him. I had such a hard-on in my CB3000. When we got back home, the Mistress made me lick her shoes clean (as usual) before telling me to remove her torn pantyhose and then her panties, which she placed directly into my mouth. She secured my ball gag over them and left me like that for the rest of the night. I nearly cracked my CB because I was so excited by constantly tasting her in my mouth. I'm getting hard again just writing this down; OMG, I absolutely love being my Mistress Wife's obedient tame bitch.

Why do so many people view threads but only a few bother to leave a comment.... Amazing...

**Do we really have to explain this to you?** Their hands are busy.

Sounds like an absolutely amazing evening! I always feel a bit awkward and embarrassed when meeting my girlfriends' lovers—mostly the ones I'm not allowed to watch. When I am permitted to watch, I feel included in it—it's sort of like a weird threesome. However, there is that same awkward feeling you get when men take just your girlfriend away from you at a party or similar event. There was definitely a sense of being a lesser man, knowing he fucked my girlfriend more in one night than I have over the last several years!

Subhub, I enjoyed your post and didn't reply because I felt I had nothing valuable to add. I appreciate that you shared your story and hope you and your wife are very happy.

> subhub1 said: > Why do so many people view threads but so few can be bothered to put a comment.... > Amazing... > Click to expand... Some people might not relate to the situation or, like myself, enjoy reading the story relayed without having anything specific to add. I try to read every single post on the site, but sometimes there's just nothing for me to contribute. I'm sure you wouldn't want everyone posting 'I've read this, thank you.' You are very lucky to have such an understanding wife, and I hope your journey is long and happy. I'll also add that my latest Journal has over 16,000 views, but there definitely aren't 16,000 comments!

It sounds like the Christmas party was a hit for both of you. I wonder how many people were watching. Now if that had been me and I was getting hard in my cage, OMG when I get home my wife would have beaten my ass for it because she doesn't allow me to be hard while caged. She says being hard means I'm having dirty thoughts and shouldn't. It was the same situation back when our daughters were around and I was wearing panties; getting hard then is what started it all.

Can't wait to hear about your New Year's Eve Party

Dear Subhub, you are so lucky to have such a Wonderful Mistress who humiliate you and keep you in your proper place. This is how women should always treat their chastized men: put them in their place while the women enjoy life with real men with big cocks. In this way, their slaves have purpose—cleaning boots and pussy afterward.

Well... since I personally find cuckolding (aka blatant infidelity) extremely distasteful.... the only thoughts entering my mind were a baseball bat and divorce. My lover will love me—and no one else..... or won't love me at all.

subhub1Thanks for the post. I'm pulling on myself now. Have fun. * View Profile * View Forum Posts * Private Message * View Blog Entries subhub1 * View Profile * View Forum Posts * Private Message * View Blog Entries * Add as Contact * Add as Contact

I respectfully agree with MW... I read almost every post but Mistress and i are not into cuckolding so there is no need to comment. That's the beauty of the mansion... there are so many varieties in the lifestyle and all are welcome here.

Hi everyone and thanks for adding comments, It seems quite evenly split between those who love the idea of being a cuckold and those who simply hate it. As chastityslavejohn mentioned, so many varieties are catered to here. To get my gripe out of the way first: I honestly feel that forums are divided into a few active posters, a few more commenters, and the majority lurkers.....it seems to be this way on the forums I visit anyway. As long as the status quo is maintained, things are OK. The problem arises when those 'few more' stop commenting. As someone who enjoys posting online, the ONLY thing I effectively ask for are a few replies. Even if it's not your cup of tea, it doesn't hurt to say 'not my bag baby, but hey have fun.' As a poster myself, I think well now that person has taken the time not only to read my stuff but also had the politeness to add a reply.... And that is all. Nothing more required. The obvious problem with posts receiving few or no replies is that the original poster thinks, 'OK no one can be bothered to reply, so why should I bother posting again?' Forums soon become dull places. This post is a classic example because I really wanted to add the rather exciting end to this story but at first thought 'why bother' and now think the reply/no-reply dynamic has taken over the moment. So in conclusion, I would urge anyone who reads a post and sees merit in it to just take a few seconds out of their life to let the poster know you appreciate their efforts. Ta

> 'OK no one can be bothered to reply, so why should I bother posting again' and forums soon become a dull place. > Click to expand... I have to point out that compared to other chastity sites we have a huge reply rate, usually 60 to 100 posts per day versus only 5 to 10 elsewhere. I would also point toward bloggers. They post and post and sometimes NO-ONE replies! They are happy just having readers, which is how I see it in my Journal. I'm quite relieved that people don't always reply... otherwise, I'd be here for days reading the responses! Sometimes they do, and sometimes they private message me. I don't blog specifically for responses. If I have a question, post a thread, and no one comments, I get a bit mad! LOL But if there is no defined question, sometimes people feel it isn't necessary to answer. I do take your point though; sharing adventures can feel lonely at times, but if everyone stopped blogging we would never learn about all the different things that happen in this world. Take heart, you aren't alone in not getting responses. By the way, you haven't read my Journal yet—please remember to leave a comment when you do.:evilgrin0010:

That is an amazing post; I am worried about how much it turns me on.

Sounds like it was a hot time for you.

You are so lucky; I crave that sort of humiliation.

I love having fantasies about it, but not for me in real life. Some of my best dreams involve cockolding. But to each his/own path. If you can make it work and whatever it is suits you, go for it. I would like to see a poll on how many men didn't get what they wanted out of it, despite wanting something specific. Dating, courting, even marriage is almost impossible to be happy all the time. Now add your SO going out with whomever she pleases while doing as she likes without you. HOT? Yes for me, NO... I'm still trying to understand "The Look" after 20+ years of marriage. Hell maybe "The Look" has something to do with Cockolding; Fuck if I know!!! Missy Unknowing Tanya:sign0094:

> subhub1 said: > Why do so many people view threads but so few can be bothered to put a comment.... > Amazing... > Click to expand... Hello subhub1 I am a 27 year old virgin sub locked into chastity by my girlfriend... I dreamed of living the life you are living... I am from INDIA