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Hello everyone, Let me introduce myself to the community. My girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, yet we are lucky enough to see each other…

member_2e1015ddaa 11 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone, Let me introduce myself to the community. My girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, yet we are lucky enough to see each other every ten days. We discovered chastity three months ago while looking for toys online. We decided to order a steel cage, similar to an MMJB style. We spent a weekend playing on and off and had our fun. The morning she left, I went to sleep in the irons, she told me that I would stay caged until we meet again in ten days. She took the key; mine at home was kept in a lockbox with a four-digit combination. Her reason for keeping me locked up is practical: because of my somewhat turbulent sexual past, she feels more secure while away knowing I am secured. Regarding my daily masturbation habit, her answer to my concerns was that “there is no need for you to masturbate on your own.” So here I am in 24/7 chastity from the start of our experiment. I have accepted her decision to keep me caged as long as we are together because it is partly my fault, and I want to prove that my submission to her is real. Some days I struggle deeply in my cage, especially after a week when I get quite horned up, but knowing she will unlock me soon gives me the strength to endure. She has cut down my orgasms from daily to occasional visits when she allows it. In numbers, that’s about nine a month. Welcome to the world of chastity.. I did plenty of research online to understand this lifestyle, particularly regarding long-term health concerns, which is how I found CM. You can find my blog on tumblr: your-caged-dog where I share my thoughts and pictures in an artistic manner. to everyone here for what I have discovered, yours sincerely y-c-d