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Sorry for the low quality pics, I'm having to use my webcam to take pictures at this moment As a Sub, I've ALWAYS enjoyed the idea of wearing a locked…

member_a20ea82833 29 Aug 2026 #1

Sorry for the low quality pics, I’m having to use my webcam to take pictures at this moment As a Sub, I’ve ALWAYS enjoyed the idea of wearing a locked collar… Previously, I satisfied this craving by using a simple chain and lock. While that worked well enough, it wasn’t something you could wear around the clock because of daily life (showing up to a client’s house to fix their computer with one on can raise eyebrows). So after some research, I found Wyred Slave - Well, last week I decided to take the plunge and order one. Here is how it went. Last Tuesday (Dec 15, 2009) I emailed Lorii stating my intention to place an order in the next few days. Knowing Christmas was approaching and everyone gets busy around that time, I didn’t expect delivery by Christmas. To my surprise, the very next day Lorii replied saying if I got my order in quickly, I would have it for Christmas \o/:) So I measured myself up and sent off the order on Friday (had to wait a few days for bank funds to clear). This morning (23rd Dec 2009), my postie knocked asking me to sign for it:) Inside the plain package was what I found. NewCollar01.jpg Inside that, I discovered several items. First was the collar nicely wrapped up. NewCollar03.jpg Underneath that nice wrapping lay the collar I had ordered. NewCollar04.jpg These items are a custom-made PVC coated Stainless Steel Wire collar. You measure yourself, send off your size, and they make it exactly how you want. I opted to go for one without an O-ring because I wanted a 24/7 vanilla-friendly collar, though you can get one with an O-ring for a little extra. Close-up_0.jpg (taken from their site) They also sell uncoated collars, Cuffs, Belts. Tons of stuff; you really should just look at the site for the full collection. If you have an idea for something they don’t stock or thought of, they will take your idea and tell you if a) it’s doable and b) how much they want for it. When I first held the collar, my first thought was “WOW this is light!!!” So much so that I had to weigh it. According to my poor kitchen weighing scales, the collar weighs an amazing 20 grams. Yet when it’s locked there, no way is it coming off without removing the screw. The locking mechanism is a screw with an Allen key head. To insert the key and turn the screw as if you were tightening it; this turns the screw into the inside of the mechanism before you remove the key, which allows the two parts to come apart. To lock it, you put the key in the lock and turn it as if loosening the screw, putting the screw back into its locking position and keeping the two parts firmly in place. NewCollar05.jpg I now have the collar secured around my neck:D and I’m very impressed; the weight is amazing… It’s so light you forget you’re wearing it. I went for a loose fit because I don’t like things tight around my neck. It sits loosely enough but is small enough that it won’t come off without removing the locking screw. The Keys… You get 2 Allen Wrenches to lock and remove the collar, And on my order they came in a small zip bag taped down to the instructions. NewCollar09.jpg But I had also ordered a “Keyring Key” for my mistress. NewCollar06.jpg These cost 5, but in my opinion they are WELL WORTH IT. The wrenches you get do the job. But your key holder will love having this key with them all the time. The key came in a little gift bag which makes it that extra bit special. NewCollar02.jpg My plan is to Hand over this key to my mistress and keep the wrenches sealed just in case of an emergency. Being a steel collar, you wouldn’t want to wear it during an MRI for example. So what are the people behind the scenes like? WELL… You can tell they are a small business who live the lifestyle themselves and really enjoy doing what they do for others. Lorii kept me well informed every step of the way; they are happy to take emails and reply quickly (As it’s Christmas you have to give them some leeway, but they still replied very quickly). I would be VERY happy to deal with them again. There is only one thing I have a niggle about. In their FAQ they state their delivery charges are 3.99 But when you get through to PayPal the charge is 5.99. But I can’t complain too much because my order was sent Next Day Special Delivery at a cost of 4.99 and (I know I’m a geek and spot these things) The package was sent from their local Post Office so have to let them off with the extra pound to cover the costs of packing, getting it to the post office, and waiting in line… I use my post office quite often so know how annoying queues can be at times. My pictures really don’t do this product justice; for some better pictures check out their galleryand customer gallery flicker group. If you’re looking for a vanilla safe collar then I would REALLY recommend these people. You can tell they really enjoy their work:)

member_a20ea82833 30 Aug 2026 #2

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member_6345ae6af0 30 Aug 2026 #3

I've always wanted something like this that locks. Nothing around the neck while at work though:(

member_a20ea82833 31 Aug 2026 #4

Well, I'm planning to wear this 24/7:) I'll be giving up the **keys** very soon, and once I do that I won't have a choice and I'll have to wear it to work:)

member_6345ae6af0 1 Sept 2026 #5

Mine is for **safety** reasons; a patient could grab it and choke me. Otherwise I would wear one.

member_a20ea82833 1 Sept 2026 #6

I see... That sucks. But with everything, always stay sane and safe. Luckily for me that's not an issue I have to worry about.

member_bf0d2ce46b 2 Sept 2026 #7

**That's on cool piece ya got there...** OK, first off....:manga_balloon: LUM!!!!! Don't want to make a big deal out of it, but I just love being able to put a name to a face. So, howdy...cuteness. *giggles* Second, I just love your new **collar**!! It's wonderful! Doesn't look at all like a "slave" **collar**. Just looks like a sweet piece of jewelry to adorn your neck. Very nice. I'm kind of jealous of your Mistress, though. I'd love to get John to wear one, but he's just not the type. Something that shows he's mine would be so lovely. I'm sure your Mistress is just tickled about getting that **key**!! Top notch, mate.:ten-on-ten:

member_a20ea82833 3 Sept 2026 #8

Well thanks Jen. It was time I showed myself to the mansion. Glad you think the **collar** is cool. Well it's past the pub test. Worn it up the pub all night and had no questions about it yet:)

member_25705a0864 4 Sept 2026 #9

Just wanted to say a very quick "hi" and to say how pleased I was to read your message on here about the Wraith **collar** from Wyred Slave. I have known Lorii for many years and have many of their products, including the exact black pvc collar that you show in your pictures. In fact I am wearing it now locked on! I don't have any concerns about wearing it in public or at the office. Like you I've experimented over the years with different locked-on systems and do like the heavy **chain** with padlock - but not practical in the vanilla world. I love what Lorii and Jason have done with Wyred Slave items and highly recommend them! Kind Regards and best wishes for 2010 - hope you have as many hours pleasure with your collar as I do Liam Manchester

member_66ce5ec6cf 4 Sept 2026 #10

I like the look, but for now we'll have to stick with my **chain** and chrome heart lock. Doing rough figuring comes to about $115 US. Kinda pricey for plastic coated wire. I'll add it to my wish list.

member_a20ea82833 6 Sept 2026 #11

$115 USD... I think you might have your figures mixed up. Using PayPal's conversion tool: 55.97 GBP (for a locking collar with an O-ring - mine does not have the O-ring and is $5 cheaper plus the Nice **key**+keyring) works out at 87.94 USD, and that's sending cash and not paying for an item (when you use PayPal to buy something the seller pays the fees). Gone are the days when PayPal gave over $2 for every pound... ok ok. $88 might still be steep, but if you break everything down to its core value you wouldn't buy anything. For example 10 meters of cat5 network cable on eBay sells for about £3 but I have most of that stuff at home; when people ask me for a length I just give it to them. It costs me about 5p per meter in cable and about 3p per RJ45 connector, so that's 56p for something that sells for £3. Hope you see my logic. Anyways. You get what you pay for and I've gotta say, it's the best $50 I've spent in a long time. Well that $90 on the CB6000s was a good purchase too. primeazati: I've been eyeing up Lorii's and Jason's stuff for a while; finally took the plunge a couple of weeks ago, and I have to say I love their work.

member_a5284b5107 6 Sept 2026 #12

I have one of these from WyredSlave as well, only mine is without the plastic coating and is stainless steel 7mm; looks fantastic.. had a few problems with the tag keep coming off though but have sorted it now myself. Has been worn without much notice being taken in vanilla circumstances but was asked at the golf club if it was a dog collar and did I have a matching **leash**?????? The woman who asked me did have a smile on her face so maybe she recognized the symbol on the tag; who knows, but she always smiles when I see her now. Great product

member_bf0d2ce46b 7 Sept 2026 #13

You didn't tell me you had a **slave** collar, Stroppy!! Holding out on me I see. Bad boy.:manga_bunny: I am totally in love with this **collar**!! LUM? Did you give your KHer the **key** yet? How does she like it? It's so fabulous!

member_a20ea82833 8 Sept 2026 #14

> stroppy said: > I have one of these from WyredSlave as well only mine is without the plastic coating and is stainless steel 7mm looks fantastic.. had a few problems with the tag keep coming off though but have sorted it now myself. Has been worn without much notice being taken in vanilla circumstances but was asked at the golf club if it was a dog collar and did I have a matching **leash**?????? The woman who asked me did have a smile on her face so maybe she recognized the symbol on the tag; who knows, but she always smiles when I see her now. Great product > Click to expand... I went for one without the tag only because I wanted a pure vanilla looking one, and as you know the tag cannot be removed without first removing one of the locking parts first (Not something that's going to be easy). But I love what you say about how it has gone unnoticed. So far the only comment I've had about wearing it is from a friend who thought it looked cool and wanted to try it on. Well I didn't have the **key** with me so I couldn't let them if I wanted to. > Goddess Jen said: > You didn't tell me you had a slave collar, Stroppy!! Holding out on me I see. Bad boy.:manga_bunny: I am totally in love with this collar!! LUM? Did you give your KHer the key yet? How does she like it? It's so fabulous! > Click to expand... No, not yet. I'm handing it over tomorrow. I've been on a mind fuck the past week; long story so won't go into it but I haven't been myself for the past week so haven't worn the **collar**.

member_641aecb5a1 9 Sept 2026 #15

Another happy Wyred Slave collar wearer here. I have an uncoated 7mm steel one with a double-sided tag. I have also had a slight problem with the tag - I needed to use a vice to close the ring that holds the tag to the **collar**. Mistress found working with Lorii to be very easy over the wording and symbol on the tag. My issue is that my skin is obviously highly corrosive, as the tag has discolored very rapidly (within 48 hours of wearing it) and is now a much darker color than when first made.