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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi all, this is my first time posting here. My girlfriend and I have been experimenting with chastity for a few months now, taking turns having her as the…

member_f7d12e2696 12 Sept 2026 #1

Hi all, this is my first time posting here. My girlfriend and I have been experimenting with chastity for a few months now, taking turns having her as the key holder off and on. Lately, she’s become much stricter about keeping me locked up and denying any kind of orgasm, which I absolutely love. I’m essentially in 24/7 confinement, and neither of us would have it differently. I’ve encountered some mental and physical challenges, with the physical ones being the easier part to handle. My device is quite small and prevents all erections; honestly, I find that more comfortable. Urination isn’t a problem since I don’t mind sitting down, though most times I can just line up the tip to stand while peeing. Going without an orgasm for a week or two is frustrating but manageable. Interestingly, missing out on having an erection and feeling him hard inside me proves to be a tougher mental battle. That said, in my view, the biggest hurdle has been mental: being locked when I’m around friends and family. For us, 24/7 confinement means that even while hanging with the guys watching football or drinking beer, I remain caged. Going on a guys’ weekend to our hunting camp is another challenge; knowing I’m the only one there who can’t have sex with his girlfriend—or even touch my own penis—makes it distinct from other times. Holidays with family are different as well. Over time, this will become second nature, and I won’t think twice about being in the cage during these events, which is already starting to happen. I love my GF dearly and enjoy being locked 24/7 for her; I wouldn’t change a thing. What have been your biggest mental or physical hurdles in long-term chastity?

member_390ccba24d 12 Sept 2026 #2

Not getting upset and trying to top from the bottom