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To start with things off, there was a quiet period for me between Christmas 2018 and New Year's Day 2019. I found myself at home on my iPad, browsing one of…
To start with things off, there was a quiet period for me between Christmas 2018 and New Year’s Day 2019. I found myself at home on my iPad, browsing one of the BDSM websites to pass the time while reading profiles and replying to messages… I was also laughing and joking around with friends online.
He made a small slip; he peeked into my profile, and his caught mine. He seemed someone who wanted domestic arrangements, and having chores done always appeals to me…I scanned down his list of likes and we were pretty much matched on most counts, except for one thing… he was younger than I am… Usually, I date people around my own age group. My submissive partner and soul mate is 62 years older than me, as is my slave helot who is also 60+ compared to mine. Here I was messaging a male in his thirties destined to be a slave.
After some messages went back and forth, I liked the sound of him and what he had to say, so I proposed that instead of exchanging long emails we meet up sometime soon for a drink and a chat…
To Be Continued…
Congratulations and best wishes. It seems you’re doing wonderfully. May he prove to be fitting and bring more joy to your life.
> tomf_22033 said: > Congratulations and best wishes. > It seems you’re doing wonderfully. May he prove to be fitting and bring more joy to your life. > Click to expand... Thank you, I do hope he turns out to be a good candidate too:)
Please do keep us updated. It is always fascinating to see what others get up to. And I am particularly drawn to relationships where Dommes have several subs and connections.
Continuing the story... I told him that if we got along well and there was chemistry, I would offer him a three-month trial period where he had to wear chastity; it wasn't optional. That is why my thread title has that wink;-). So I suggested we meet sooner rather than later. He happened to be free that evening just as I was, so we set up a time at a pub. I showered and got dressed, asking my partner to drive me there. Meeting in public is always best. I texted him once I arrived, and he met me right at the entrance of the Pub instead of making me hunt for him among the crowd. I appreciate good manners and a gentlemanly demeanor in men. We chatted for a while, and he was an easy conversationalist. I decided it would be better to return to my place rather than trying to have deeper conversations amidst the noise of a busy pub environment, so we left with him driving me home. Since I cannot drive myself, chauffeurs are always welcome. Once we got back at mine and wanting not to disturb my partner, I took him up to The Lair, which is my dungeon playroom; he looked quite awestruck lol. We chatted much more relaxedly about BDSM, chastity, and ourselves in general with far greater ease. Then I decided I would show him some of the toys in my dungeon involving CBT, so I had him strip naked. I liked his metal device, and he also wore a thick-gauge locking PA Lock....well that lasted for several hours of what I call ‘playing’ with my dungeon toys... but he might not have considered it playing at all!:) I locked him back up after he had calmed down and took the keys to put them away safely. I left him sleeping on the sofa bed in the dungeon while I went off to sleep. He departed the next day with an invitation to return...I was free New Year's Eve if he didn't have other plans.