Introductions discussion

Hi all, Happy New Year and warm greetings from Ireland. I trust you are well, happy, and healthy in the new year. Wishing everyone the best for 2019, no matter how restricted your life may be. I am delighted to have discovered this community, which feels like a blend of a secret society and Facebook specifically tailored for chastity practitioners. My time here has been varied—amazing, fulfilling, behavior-shaping, frustrating, and sometimes humiliating. There is much more to say, but I hope the gist comes across clearly. My initial two experiences involved three-month periods over a summer break when my partner traveled to the USA on her J1 visa for work. Aside from the initial shock, I had to endure seeing her in short, tight dresses with minimal or no underwear during our nights out. The gym was challenging since we all know how women dress there (though there were perks: my penis looked quite large inside the cage under my shorts, and I received some admiring glances). At the same time, I received numerous WhatsApp messages and photos showcasing her vibrant sex life in America, which added to my humiliation. Shopping online for underwear suitable for her dates was perhaps the peak of that embarrassment. Looking back now, it was enjoyable, even if she benefited more than I did. Since then, I have completed a full year in chastity, which has actually been easier than managing those earlier three-month blocks. You simply adjust to it and carry on with your life. Overall, the experiences have been wonderful, and I look forward to connecting with others who share similar interests here. I also hope to offer guidance and support to anyone feeling hesitant or nervous about starting this path. It is an exciting journey ahead.

welcome