Introductions discussion

I’m not particularly keen on introduction threads, but a lovely woman gently recommended that it would be wise to do one, so here I am.

If someone had told me five years ago that I’d end up owning several chastity devices, I would have assumed they were crazy or that I was about to suffer some kind of neurological issue. Yet, here I stand. I purchased my first device a few years back—it felt like little more than a novelty from the adult store—and since then, I’ve been hooked. This is now my sixth piece and third made of metal. While I don’t typically lock for extended periods, I do enjoy being secured. I believe ten days holds as my personal best record, though lately I have locked myself frequently for durations approaching a week.

Right now, I am locked with the combination shown to someone via webcam so they know it while I remain in the dark. It appears I will be released tomorrow after just three days. At present, I’m wearing a HolyTrainer V2; I like it well enough, but I feel it isn’t ideal for long-term use and requires unlocking every three days or so. I also own several other devices with more arriving soon.

I have no desire to be locked indefinitely, yet I truly enjoy giving up control.

I appreciate masculine men and feminine women alongside any level of intelligence. Although I am versatile, I usually prefer the submissive role. Keyholding appeals to me somewhat, but often it feels like unnecessarily welcoming needy individuals into my life. My ideal scenario would involve keyholding while training a virgin sissy; otherwise, that’s not where my primary interest lies.

I’m also a non-passable crossdresser, and I find part of the enjoyment in remaining visibly non-passable. I’ve produced a few amateur adult videos. I am bisexual and love both men and women (curiously enough, I don’t care for playing with other crossdressers; it’s just not my thing).

Obviously self-absorbed and quite possibly a narcissist, which seems typical for older female-presenting crossdressers!:D

Ultimately, I arrived here after reading somewhere that l-u-c-y had taken charge of the community (a name familiar to me from Fet and XH), and I really appreciate how this platform avoids findom.

So, if you’ve read through all that, congratulations! And thank you, L-u-cy, for managing this place in your own style.