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Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

I bought a holy trainer v3. The ring felt very comfortable. I've also tested the vice and an off-brand plastic gadget. My testicles swell just as they…

member_eea55ae8fa 12 Sept 2026 #1

I bought a holy trainer v3. The ring felt very comfortable. I’ve also tested the vice and an off-brand plastic gadget. My testicles swell just as they should, but then the ring feels too tight. My balls stay enlarged, looking like blood can’t drain back out. My scrotum turns red rather than blue. They feel swollen and tender without being truly painful. This swelling makes the device fit tightly, pinching the skin until it starts to burn. The skin near the ring edge gets chafed and raw. Yes, I do use Vaseline for lubrication. Even after hours of relaxing in a flaccid state, my scrotum and testes look swollen. It seems that if the ring is small enough not to slip off, it will eventually cause sharp pain. I’m losing hope that long-term chastity is possible for me. My goal is three months first, then a full year. How can I manage this? Should I try a different device or approach? Please help. Thanks.

member_7e329f1bc9 13 Sept 2026 #2

I experienced the same thing with CB and HT products. Once I switched to steel, the issue disappeared.

member_7cd4edca0b 15 Sept 2026 #3

> Evan62 said: > My balls swell on cue as expected, but the ring then is too snug. > Click to expand... I'm not entirely clear on your point. When wearing a device, you shouldn't have swollen testicles; swelling usually means the ring is too tight. A good guideline is that you should be able to slip the tip of your pinky finger between your body and the ring.