Novices and newbies discussion

Hiya I’m a 63 yr old trans person My penis is reasonably large It measures about 4” soft and 7 hard, with good thickness I’ve been checking cage dimensions for ages and they all seem tiny Only recently bought my first chastity cage A man cage model 3 from Bondara It wasn’t perfect but gave me an interesting start I chose it because it was the largest I could find Putting it on took some effort, but once secured I was very happy Almost felt like my thing had disappeared! When removed after 6 hours there was significant bruising The next time around scared me a bit and my first attempt at sleeping ended in tears Literally waking up with a painful erection Sadly I consigned it to the bottom of the wardrobe. I am hooked now and an HT v3 maxi was soon in my hands Felt much more comfortable straight away. The Only issue I had initially was that it wouldn’t sit straight The first night I woke with an erection and very dark looking balls I took it off and spent the next week locked for during the day Then yesterday (Saturday) I tried for an overnight / 24 hr lock in I started at 5 am and felt great throughout the day By evening it had twisted around but wasn’t uncomfortable Awoke about 2 am with a stiffie which went away after pacing Slept again till 5 when another erection woke me The cage had turned sideways and wasn’t comfortable As I type I’ve taken it off and after cleaning it’s going back on Still not perfect but better The search continues for the perfect cage