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My Lady has exceeded any previous point we’ve hit in our FLR and chastity experiments. She is an enthusiast now, enjoying the privilege that having me as her butler brings to her. Currently, she keeps heavier kinks like hard bondage and corporal punishment light on the front end, while definitely asserting her authority. One surprise for me is how much she likes seeing me dressed up. A sharply attired butler delights her, but she also appreciates the ‘bondage’ feel of a snug necktie (hence this thread’s title). No locks or ropes needed right now. She requires I dress like this more often while serving or escorting her, and has hinted it could become full-time depending on our schedule and social life. Uh-oh. Another surprise is the length of my chastity stretches. I expected maybe a week between unlocks, but based on what she has said and done so far, I think I can expect periods closer to a month, provided my service and submission are good. Since going a full week in chastity makes me go a bit crazy, this represents a major shift in our approach. I have become a diligently submissive butler eager to please. I thanked her profusely for allowing me to submit and serve; she responded with a smile that leaves me slightly nervous. Time will tell, but I believe we’ve undergone a significant change. As the noose tightens, I hope I possess what it takes to remain in her good graces.

good luck to you both

> LesterBallard said: > good luck to you both > Click to expand... Thanks! It’s a kind of excited feeling...

Indeed I hope you two kick everything off in the right direction. Sounds like you're off to a good start!

I'm so happy for you two. It's wonderful when a wife accepts her husband's chastity and then begins to do the things that help her grow in her confidence and leadership in the marriage. A lot of submissive husbands feel like their needs are only tolerated instead of used and developed by their wives.

> Rectrix said: > I'm so happy for you two. It's wonderful when a wife accepts her husband's chastity and then begins to do the things that help her grow in her confidence and leadership in the marriage. A lot of submissive husbands feel like their needs are only tolerated instead of used and developed by their wives. > Click to expand... Thanks, Rectrix, If you had told me when I was in my 20’s that I would get a sexual charge from doing chores for my Lady while my dick was locked in a cage and wearing a jacket and tie I would have thought you were the crazy one. Now I feel differently;-) My Lady has run off to do things, leaving me in my ‘service uniform’ to attend to the toilets (among other assignments). She gave me a long, deep kiss as she left that reminded me immediately that I’m locked up.:lock:o_O

Congrats on your progress

Yesterday left me tingling emotionally and feeling sorry for Mr. Happy, who wants out of his cage and is doing his best to break out (ouch). When my Lady came home she made a big fuss about my outfit, stroking my tie and expressing great satisfaction with my appearance. Her smile as she talks to me and gives directions definitely signals that things are different now. Whatever clicked, it has clicked in a major way. She clearly enjoys the role of Lady, and having me serve as her butler. Interestingly, she never mentions Mr. Happy or his imprisonment. She has said a few times now that I will know when she wishes to unlock him. The capper for the day was when she came up to join me in bed. She immediately slid over to where I was reading and said 'Do me' - referring to massaging her various tension spots. Though I expected it to progress to sex (for her) it did not. She had very specific wishes about what got massaged or stroked; as I fulfilled her requests, she started to drift off to sleep. Mr. Happy was banging at the cell door, poor little guy. She ended the episode with 'I'm ready to sleep now, good night' and moved to her side of the bed and turned off the light. She was asleep in scant minutes, while I took a good bit longer. o_O I love my Lady and how she has taken command of me as her butler!