Journals and blogs discussion

My wife and I have been exploring chastity since 2016, with me introducing her to the kink. At first, she was hesitant, but eventually accepted it without much enthusiasm.

I get locked roughly once a month for periods of three to seven days, though sometimes there are two lock-ups in a single month or even an entire un-locked month. So we aren’t constantly playing with chastity.

Usually, I am the one who initiates by putting on the cage; my wife only asks me to do it once. She takes the keys with varying degrees of enthusiasm—sometimes eagerly, sometimes hesitantly, and occasionally she refuses to keep them.

I know she thinks that if I lock myself up, it means I don’t want her as a woman, which seems to be her main objection. She enjoys PIV and natural intimacy, but also likes my behavior while locked. She has never kept me caged for more than 11 days—that was my record. Honestly, I’d love if she played with more enthusiasm. I wouldn’t mind breaking the record, but anything approaching a full month scares me.

Yesterday, I locked myself and placed the keys in the bathroom, then sent my wife a message saying I was bathing, caged, and waiting for her to claim them.

She immediately came to take the keys, hid them away briefly, and returned so we could bathe together. We had a lovely evening playing; I gave her a long massage, which is rare when I’m unlocked. I caressed her and used my tongue, but she didn’t reach an orgasm—which was disappointing since she usually does in these situations.

I wasn’t particularly horny or frustrated, as my last release happened just on Thursday only three days prior (I typically start getting hornier after a week without it). Let’s see when she decides to open me. I hope she keeps me caged for longer than usual, but I don’t want to push too hard either. After about a week of being locked, the urge becomes desperate, so at that point, I usually stop wanting to play.