Introductions discussion

Hi there, I’ve got my boyfriend locked in a chastity cage. It took us several months and trying out multiple gadgets to find one we’re both happy with—one that I’m sure he can’t escape from, and another that doesn’t dig into his skin. My boyfriend brought up the idea of chastity himself. Although I’m fairly new to this lifestyle, I absolutely love having him locked away. I don’t naturally radiate confidence or have a gift for eloquence when speaking out loud; you could say we live what people call a vanilla life. Any advice, experiences, or insights anyone can offer would be greatly appreciated. Also, do you know where is the best starting point to search for resources that might help me? Thank you, Kelly

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Hello Kelly! It's lovely to know you two are having a good time and making it work. Diving into the female-led relationships and key holding sections is a solid starting point for you. They're also excellent spots to pose specific questions from your perspective. Beyond that, start figuring out what you want from your chaste partner and ensure he delivers while he's in his frustrated yet devoted mood. To put it simply, there are many choices available and the power rests firmly in your hands (or wherever you hide the key).