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Hello and welcome to our community, the sanctuary for male chastity! Please take a moment to review these notes; they explain some of the site's features…

member_65fa0f18b2 12 Sept 2026 #1

Hello and welcome to our community, the sanctuary for male chastity! Please take a moment to review these notes; they explain some of the site’s features and rules. Begin with an introduction The easiest way to make friends is to visit the Introductions area and post a “Hi - I’m here!” note. It can be as brief or long as you like. Perhaps share how you found us. Introductions Avatar guidelines We encourage every member to upload a photo so they are easily recognizable. However, please keep your avatar tidy; avoid using images of penises or any crotch-focused photos, which belong in the gallery… Gallery The Gallery is open for you to share pictures of yourself wearing your device and other images from your chastity journey. Gallery Our Moderation team reviews these uploads, so there might be a slight delay before they appear. When uploading, remember that you can choose whether photos are public or visible only to site members. Looking for a keyholder / Mistress? The Personals section is where you should go. Please avoid messaging every female member asking them to hold your keys; this will annoy people and might lead to a ban. If someone wants a sub, slave, or partner, they usually indicate it in their profile or the Personals area. Post an ad about what you can offer a keyholder and wait for responses. Verified females Females who wish to be verified should contact site staff. Once done, you can join the Verified female keyholders forum; men may look but not comment!: ) Chat rooms The General chat room covers daily topics and basic chastity discussions. Try to avoid discussing advanced fetishes that might deter beginners—that’s what the kinky room is for; ) Please keep sissy/CD conversations in their appropriate room so they don’t overwhelm the main area. Findom and Pro Dommes Financial domination (Findom) and paid keyholding are not allowed here; we prefer to remain a safe haven from these practices. If anyone requests money or gifts, please report them to staff. If you are a Pro Domme, mention only your personal relationships, not what happens during your paid sessions. (This is because we don’t want members pressuring their wives into doing the things an expert paid Professional Domme would do.) Site behavior Remember that some members may be less open-minded than you are. Keeping posts and especially thread titles respectful to everyone helps greatly. We welcome all chastity-related topics, but not at the cost of alienating others. That covers most of it! Feel free to reach out if you have any issues.:) Enjoy the site! L-u-c-y Site owner