Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

How much of your chastity really depends upon your device? How long could you without it and resist the urge to orgasm? I ask because I don’t wear my device at work - but I’m so focused on the tasks at hand (pun intended) that I’m never tempted to masturbate. I wear it when I get home and until I have to go back to work. On my days off, it doesn’t come off. So clearly I can be trusted without my device to some extent, but find it better/easier to have it on.

I don't need it. It's a useful toy for teasing and that kind of play, but I don't masturbate with or without it.

When I’m working I don’t think about my device at all. My weakness is when I’m home by my self than I start to touch myselfa and get aroused. Miss Shelly has tried to leave me unlocked while I was at home by myself but I continued to fail her so now for the past few years I’ve be locked all the time when alone. It’s better that way, I don’t get disciplined as much.

For me the device is all about my KH having control over my erections and orgasms. So in that sense I "need" it all the time -- not because I would in fact masturbate madly without it (2-3 times a week was my norm before chastity), or even because stopping masturbation is the point. The point is being locked.

A lot! All the time! It is a little thing, but its a big thing. I am not, "playing" a game. I am hard core chaste and must be locked always. I didn't have a problem with P, or M. I just needed to be in a position of complete restriction from arousal. The cage was my saving grace. The feeling, with my device on, is much better experience emotionally and physically than with it off.

honestly i don0t need the cage, over time i loose my sexual needed; honestly i think anymore to my sexual pleasure (orgasm). But i like wear cage and i do more as a symbol of my submission to her.

It doesn’t. I’m on strict no touching rules. I’m locked just over 50% of the time. Though it’s getting more and more with time. I’ve my orgasms controlled since mid-2014, and haven’t had a relapse since I was locked in my piercing-secured custom Contender chastity cage. The longest without orgasm has been just over 12 weeks. The longest between supervised masturbation has been over 15 months. I’m closing in on 12 months soon.