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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I've been dating a fantastic woman who loves engaging in Chastity play with me! The catch is that she always unlocks me. She adores wearing my key nestled…

member_e22f414ae2 13 Sept 2026 #1

I’ve been dating a fantastic woman who loves engaging in Chastity play with me! The catch is that she always unlocks me. She adores wearing my key nestled in her lovely cleavage, keeps me shaved, and has me dressed in panties around the clock. I adore this dynamic but want to extend my locked time since we don’t see each other constantly and I have a habit of self-pleasuring! The longest stretch before was 3 days! My goal is to hit a full week first, then push further! Essentially, I’m seeking advice or inspiration that I can share with her here on the site so she understands my desire to remain self-cuffed for her!

member_261c7352c4 13 Sept 2026 #2

you need to discuss it clearly with her and explain exactly what you've written above. Good luck

member_742c8613d4 14 Sept 2026 #3

You got the first three sorted out; aim for four next time. Small steps work best. There's no point claiming you can handle six weeks if your eyes are bulging and drool is running (here and there) after just 6 hours. Point 2: Just go ahead!

member_0cac2a565e 15 Sept 2026 #4

If she wants to talk with another newcomer I'm here:)