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Online chastity and self locking discussion

As I mentioned in the "introductions" area, I'm currently single—and to be frank, I don't wear a cage. For some reason, staying unlocked gives me a sense of…

member_808e5eddd4 13 Sept 2026 #1

As I mentioned in the “introductions” area, I’m currently single—and to be frank, I don’t wear a cage. For some reason, staying unlocked gives me a sense of guilt. Does anyone else experience this? Do you think subs ought to remain locked by default at all times—even if they aren’t in a relationship?

member_e503afa339 13 Sept 2026 #2

No, it's fine. Don't go overboard. We often do tend to exaggerate things. But you must find the right balance to preserve both fun and excitement while looking after yourself. Just don't break your toys (meaning the subs).;)