Online chastity and self locking discussion

I’m a hesitant keyholder—the partner often discussed in these threads regarding how to get your wife or girlfriend to keep hold of the key. I’ve been trying, but it’s tough for me to take on that dominant role. However, I’ve discovered a method to fulfill my boyfriend’s chastity needs without being the one doing all the teasing and playing games he expects.

After learning about Emlalock, I organized a session for him. I locked him in, placed the key inside a keysafe, and initiated his session. I didn’t check the combination code myself, meaning he was truly secured until released via Emlalock. He grumbled initially, but I believe he ended up enjoying it. It seems he wasn’t entirely certain about when release would happen as the time kept shifting. He also wavered on whether his emla keyholder was male or female, though that distinction didn’t really affect him.

I actually found myself teasing him more effectively than if I held the physical key, since I knew no matter how much he pleaded, I couldn’t let him out just yet. For me, this proved to be a success, and I suspect it was for him too.

It might not suit everyone, but as someone who is reluctant about holding the keys, this approach works well for me.

This stands out to me as the most helpful post I’ve come across regarding emlalock (or similar platforms). I’m now considering creating an emlalock coupon complete with instructions and giving it to my own somewhat reluctant keyholder.