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Hello, I’m seriously considering leaving this site… My submissive relationship is in a sort of holding pattern, which explains my low activity here. However, I keep receiving private messages from men asking if they can become my sub, or checking if I have any female friends who are available. So, how do I go invisible? It’s quite frustrating to constantly field these questions, particularly when you’re already immersed in that lifestyle… Thank you very much

You can't truly go invisible, but there is an "Ignore" function for profiles. Once ignored, those users cannot send you further messages. Another option is to update your profile bio with a note such as: "I'm not looking for keyholders right now; please message me about it and I'll block the rest." This should help filter them out. It seems many men assume that any woman on a fetish site must be hunting for someone, similar to how they view dating apps.

> L-u-c-y said: > You can't truly go invisible, but there is an "Ignore" function for profiles. Once ignored, those users cannot send you further messages. > Another option is to update your profile bio with a note such as: "I'm not looking for keyholders right now; please message me about it and I'll block the rest." This should help filter them out. > It seems many men assume that any woman on a fetish site must be hunting for someone, similar to how they view dating apps. > Click to expand... That's a helpful suggestion. I will update my profile; it makes perfect sense:)