Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

I’m a 23-year-old straight guy in the DMV area (DC, Maryland, Virginia). I’ve experimented with short-term chastity, using both self-locking devices and an online keyholder, and really liked it. My longest time locked was just over five days, ending up as a horned-up, leaking mess.

I want to dive deeper into submission, subservience, and kink, seeking someone who wants to engage with me as a casual, preferably real-life, female keyholder. As others have noted, there isn’t much you can do for an online KH without physical presence besides sending pics and texts and keeping the lock in place, so I’m curious about what comes next.

I’d love to make that jump and experience being controlled by someone who is actually there, even if it’s through simple means. Basic activities like tidying up a keyholder’s belongings while locked or just handing over the keys face-to-face sound exciting to me. However, submission is my main focus; I’m happy to provide more intimate service if a dominant lady wants it.

Long-term or ‘permanent’ chastity doesn’t really suit me practically or interestingly right now, and I probably couldn’t stay locked continuously anyway. My goal is something safe, sane, consensual, and practical.

Beyond that—I do have limits, preferences, and other things to explore—but I’m trying to steer clear of the ‘here’s my highly specific list of fantasies, fulfill them immediately’ vibe in this post. Hopefully, I’ve achieved that balance, and someone whose location and tastes match mine will find their way here.

If you’re open to playing together, feel free to send me a direct message.